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There was some overlap during the time when Diddy reportedly dated partner Kim Porter and Jennifer Lopez. While both women were traumatized by the relationship with the hip-hop mogul, an insider suggests that he did not treat both women equally. According to the source, Diddy allegedly lost temper around Porter often but treated Lopez with more respect.
Porter and Diddy’s relationship continued from 1994 until 2007, with frequent gaps in between. They had three children together, Christian and twins Jessie and D’lila. Lopez allegedly began dating P Diddy in 1999 after the two met on the sets of a music video.
Diddy Reportedly Treated His Ex-Girlfriends Kim Porter And Jennifer Lopez Differently
Sean Diddy Combswas reportedly not good at relationships with each Jennifer Lopez and Kim Porter. Lopez once told Vibe Magazine that the relationship with Diddy“took my whole life in a tailspin”and that she“was totally crying, crazy, and going nuts”(via Standard UK). Meanwhile, Porterthrew a“small”television at Diddywhen she found out about his affair with Lopez (via Essence).
However, his former bodyguard Gene Deal claims that Diddy treated Lopez and Porter with two different levels of respect. Deal toldCam Capone Newsduring an interview that he had seen Diddy getting physical with Porter. However, he clarified that he never saw him break Porter’s nose, which was one of the allegations brought up against the singer.
Deal shared,“I’ve never seen Puff put his hands on Kim like that other than snatching her and grabbing her.”He shared that even the little moments between them, like a playfight with pillows, would lead to Diddy getting a little rough withKim Porter. However, Deal claimed that theLast Nightsinger never laid his hands on Lopez.
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Deal opened up about Diddy’s different demeanor when he was around Lopez,“He never tried to talk to her crazy or anything around people. I never even heard him raise his voice to her.”In a 2017 interview withEntertainment Tonight, Diddy shared that Lopez was“without doubt”one of his great loves.
It was despite the fact that Lopez had alleged infidelity after they broke up. Even after their breakup, they remained friends and were seen hugging and catching up whenever they ran into each other publicly.
Why Did Sean Diddy Combs Treat Jennifer Lopez Differently?
Gene Deal believed that it wasJennifer Lopez‘s fame and career success that probably prompted Diddy to not get too aggressive with her. Speaking withThe Art of Dialogue, Deal claimed that Diddy“wasn’t gonna risk himself”because Lopez wouldn’t have kept it a secret if he treated her badly. Deal also shared another reason why Diddy was more respectful. He shared:
And plus, a lot of people didn’t like him. J.Lo’s mother didn’t like him, Benny Medina didn’t like him. So, now, the first, if he were to ever touch Ms. Lopez in any kind of aggressive way, she would’ve said something. Man, listen to me. The whole Bronx would’ve been on Puff.
Those close to Lopez were particularly careful about her relationship with Diddy after a nightclub shooting incident. Diddy, Lopez, and former associate Moses Shyne Barrow fled the club in a car after the shooting. Following a chase, police stopped their car and found a stolen gun inside. Shyne claimed thathe was made to be the fall guyin the incident.
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Deal further added that it was also the reason why Lopez had nothing to say when it came to the Diddy scandal. He claimed that Lopez was unaware of this side of the Bad Boy CEO, sharing,“I don’t think she has a story where Puff was trying to be abusive or was abusive to her.”
A public moment revealed thatLopez’s mother wasn’t fond of Diddy. When theLet’s Get Loudsinger appeared onThe Wendy Williams Show, she was asked about the prospect of getting back together with Diddy. While she laughed it off, her mother could be seen saying from the audience,“She’s done!”. The message couldn’t be any clearer.
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